Sandra who is a new teacher at CCCD, replacing Ms. Frazier invited me to stay at her house for the weekend. Mainly, it was a way to improve her signing skills after being with me for 24 hours for 4 days. She certainly improved! But also it was an opportunity for me to get out of CCCD for the long holiday weekend. Most of the staff had gone home visiting their families for the weekend. Sandra knew I’d be so bored here. It was so nice of her to invite me over.
Thursday morning, she and her husband came to pick me up (they have their own van) and we hung out downstairs with Reid. She and her husband, Gary were deciding on a song to sign for at church. We practiced for a while. Then went to her house. As we pulled into their yard, we had to go in the back of the house. It was so dark! It was on a hill and very rocky. WOW! That was hard! I have somewhat a bad balance in the dark so rocky hill doesn’t help me get to the staircase easily. Made it with hanging on to Sandra. Now, the staircase… it was just wood…. maybe 6 inches long and 2 feet wide boards. AND the first 4 steps doesn’t have any railings! So, it was scary to go up there in the dark too. I felt like a 3 years old climbing the staircase, using my hands on the steps. Heh
First night, they gave up their bed and made me sleep in there. I felt sooo bad! I said I could sleep on the couch. But I wasn’t gonna argue with them.
Got up at 6am. yikes! They came from outside into the bedroom bringing the mattress in to put under the bed. I thought…. they slept out on the vernada???!!!! It’s like a balcony. Nooo, they slept in the living room. WHEW!!! Almost made me feel SO bad! heh
We got up so early because we had to go to CCCD and pick up Reid and go out to Mandeville area. Gary’s family tagged along too. We dropped Reid off at a place then we went on to Gary’s Great-Aunt’s house. We all hung out at the vernada of her house all afternoon. They all ate sugar cane, shedding and cutting passing around canes. I had maybe 6 inches cane and that was it for me. Everyone else could eat one whole cane wihch is like 4 feet long!
Saturday, I woke up to no water to shower!! Gary got a bucket of water and brought to the tub. laid out a big bowl for me. It was for me to do a “hospital bath”. That was an experience. Something that they probably deal with so often. Anyways, we just stayed at home all day. They practiced signing their song for church for most of the day. I sat on the beam of the balcony. It’s funny because I wondered why Jamaicans do that LOT! Hanging out at the vernada. I understand now why…. it’s lot cooler outside rather than being inside the little house.
Sunday, they were up at 5:30 am, trying to decide what to wear and all that! SO EARLY !!! Heh
Went to church with them. The Pastor was back at church for the first time after 4 strokes, and he had been laid up for 4 years! He was back that Sunday, walking and talking a little bit. It was teary moment for everyone.
Afternoon was spent at home, again, they were going to perform Sunday night so they had to decide what to wear etc… took HOURS of deciding what to wear, wanting both to match. And they practiced few more times.
Evening…. waited for an hour to start church. It was supposed to be at 6 but we were one of the 2 families to arrive and no one else showed up until 7ish. Yikes! The evening was sort of like a Talent Show. It was so funny! bunch of laughs!!! Gary was performing a dance with 2 other members and they all were just so funny!!!! He can’t dance…. but his father was so shocked and stood up and said “WHAT?!? I never knew my boy could move!” We all dropped laughing!!!!!!!!
I got back to CCCD at 10:30pm. It was a wonderful weekend!!! Oh, throughout the weekend, I got my “American Fix”. As weird as it may sound to you… It was being able to watch American tv shows and movies. They had cable tv. I even got to watch one of my favorite movies. I even watched commericals. Back in the States, I wouldn’t watch any commericals, I’d get up, go bathroom, get some snacks or a drink… or even flip the channels for a few minutes. But here, I watched the commericals and laughed at some of them. It was a good weekend.


